Yes, I know. This is one of those things you learn in kindergarten but it still applies to us as adults.
As the end of the year approaches, both my husband and I have some very big projects to finish up and some fairly ambitious financial targets to hit. So our weekend time is becoming ever more scarce. Our compromise was for each of us to work one day and keep one day to be with the kids and deal with the house. He worked Saturday, while I had my pyjama day. I worked today while he hung out with the boys and did fun boy stuff including grocery shopping (which our kids do oddly enjoy). Worked out well.
There’s no “i” in debt, or team for that matter – so find an approach that makes the best of the time and the team that you have.